Sunday, February 27, 2011

header 4

hai blogger...
sape2 yang mahu sha buatkan header blog korg
just msg sha di inbox fb sha ek
hantar kan details ek macam
1) tema
2) colour
3) gambar
4) font
5) email , nama blog , description blog
6) letakkan je request pape lg 
sha akan try buat yg terbaik buatkan header korg ek :)

dari nana suka merepek :)
thankx coz like it :)

thankx :)

thankx :)

thankx :)


Saturday, February 26, 2011

header 3

hai blogger...
sape2 yang mahu sha buatkan header blog korg
just msg sha di inbox fb sha ek
hantar kan details ek macam
1) tema
2) colour
3) gambar
4) font
5) email , nama blog , description blog
6) letakkan je request pape lg 
sha akan try buat yg terbaik buatkan header korg ek :)

"kecomelan tapi kelakian"
antara request yg cik joel
thankx coz suka kan nye ^_^ 

"saya minta arsenal"
request cik syafiq
dialah 1st yg order header bertemakan bola
hope u like it :)

cik fayad kita ini mahu header nye bertemakan purple
1st time blogger mahu kan purple
heheee ^_^
(boring dgn pink =.= )
maaf ek peminat pink sekelian
thankx taw coz suka kan nye ^_^

"ade aku kesah"
sha xkisah :D
hehee . thankx cik farhana coz trust sha buatkan header utk farhana :)

cik huda kita ini mahu header pink
entah cmne sha terbayang berlian
mmg gilew berlian laa sha ini . 
thankx miss huda coz suka kan nya :) 

Thursday, February 24, 2011

header 2

 header yg direquest oleh cik Ifti Larina
pink dan bermonster
monster itu nak pukul rama-rama
kcian rama-rama

header ini khas utk mawarkuwada
bertemakan purple yg mmg sesuai dgn nye 
hope u like it :)

"tema saya mahu pink!"
antara request2 nya utk header cik Yasmin Diiz
"kalo bole saya mahu ade gambar pmpuan tgh menaip"
dpt la jgk gmbar pmpuan ini..
hope u like it dear :)

last but not least
antara request nya ialah warna2 ceria
entah camne sha automatik berpikir stars
maaf la ek cik azry
harap2 azry suka kan nye ek :)

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

♡ Blytheye ♡ RM35 ♡ READY STOCK ♡

selamat membeli ea :)


ini antara header pertama sha untuk malam ni...
dari cik Tehah ..
bertemakan biru and pink..
sha main tibai je nak edit cmne..
first2 tersalah taip url nya..
then da btol kan dan itulah hasilnya..
thankx tehah coz caya sha buat kan tehah header ini :)

bertemakan biru..
sha pn da tergaru2 nak buat cmne..
coz sha xmahu samakan header dia sbelum ini..
soo sha try ubah2..
alhamdulillah cik hajar rasdi suka :D

yg ini bertemakan keyboard and pink..
kalau diikutkan..
header cik iera nazirah kita da lawa sgt da..
sha pun berkata..
"alamaakkk!! header da lawa...nak buat cmne ini.."
sha pun pandai2 je mengedit2..
harap cik iera suka ea :)

kalau korang mahu kan header..
contact sha kt fb ea
kilk disini

Sunday, February 20, 2011

saya mahu kurus !!

hari ini genap lah sha sebulan diet..
sha da turun 6 kg da..

target sha mahu smpai 55kg sebelum hujung tahun nie..
berat skg xnklah sha bagitahu...


Friday, February 18, 2011

Saya Join Bloglist YUYU ZULAIKHA

"pesal muak dia lawa sgt??"

itulah reaksi sha bila dpt jejak belog dia ini..
orang yang bertuah itulah
xcaya yg dia ini lawa?
nahh amek la korg mcm mane muka nye :)

gorgeous kan ?
hehe ^_^

sha mahu jadi antara bloglist dia . itu yg sha buat entri ini :)
kalo sape2 yg mahu join bloglist nye skaly..boleh je :D
sama2 kita terjah belog nye yg comel + teratur + chantek ini


Nur Syafinaz Asyirah Binti Shahrizan

hai blogger :)

hari ini sha mintak tolong korg sgt3
kalo boleh korg undi member sha ini

comel kan dia ?

cara-cara mengundi :

1st :
"LIKE" page facebook ini dulu

2nd :
"LIKE" gambar ini pula :)


Tuesday, February 8, 2011

In a relationship, married or not... YOU SHOULD READ THIS!


When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.


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